Just as mum is getting into a routine and getting her appetite back, my dad has decided to become difficult. It may be his response to events but he seems to be actively trying to cause problems and constantly tries to argue. The latest this morning was an announcement at breakfast in front of mum that he’d make his own dinner at lunch because he’d decided he didn’t like the food I made when I got in from work in the early evening. Mum instantly wondered about her, he said he’d make hers too but she was upset that the family dinner wouldn’t happen and that she can’t eat a lot at lunch time, she said she wouldn’t want dinner then ,in fact when she was in the nursing home dad had asked she got something light at lunch and not a meal. It transpired he’d thought a meal I’d left out to defrost was for him- it wasn’t. He then said it wasn’t the food it was where it was bought! He then said it was ok for me to cook dinner for him at the weekends so long as it was from scratch! I think he was startled when I said that wouldn’t be happening. He’s always been a bit difficult but this is the latest bump. He’s been leaving the house as soon as I get in to go out, I can understand that as it is hard being with mum at times but this is literally every day even at the weekend, he can’t wait to get out of the house. He’s also discounting anything mum says, and trying to get her to do things his way which causes problems. I’m trying not to rise to him but it’s hard.