Hi,
Haven't posted for a while. I was away on holiday last week and when I got back there was a message on my answer machine from a nurse at Dad's CH saying that there had been an incident the previous night when Dad had gone into the room of another resident and hit him. She said the other resident was "fine", Dad was "fine" and they had called the GP who hadn't changed Dad's medication.
My mind is racing - what if the other resident HAD been badly hurt - or worse - what would have happened to Dad? Would they have asked him to leave? I can't begin to imagine what I would do if they did. Surely this is not Dad's fault - it's due to a lack of supervision and lack of proper sedation. I know the last time he got aggressive it was because he refused his pills and the staff on duty didn't think to hide them in his food.
And .... the thing that keeps coming back to me is ... surely someone who acts this way is not just someone who needs social care - but has a real mental illness?
I'd really appreciate your thoughts and words of wisdom.
Best wishes,
C
Haven't posted for a while. I was away on holiday last week and when I got back there was a message on my answer machine from a nurse at Dad's CH saying that there had been an incident the previous night when Dad had gone into the room of another resident and hit him. She said the other resident was "fine", Dad was "fine" and they had called the GP who hadn't changed Dad's medication.
My mind is racing - what if the other resident HAD been badly hurt - or worse - what would have happened to Dad? Would they have asked him to leave? I can't begin to imagine what I would do if they did. Surely this is not Dad's fault - it's due to a lack of supervision and lack of proper sedation. I know the last time he got aggressive it was because he refused his pills and the staff on duty didn't think to hide them in his food.
And .... the thing that keeps coming back to me is ... surely someone who acts this way is not just someone who needs social care - but has a real mental illness?
I'd really appreciate your thoughts and words of wisdom.
Best wishes,
C