i care for my husbans who has Alzheimers, the last year he has got worse, he has had a urine infection for 5 weeks and had 3 lots of antibiotics, the one he is on now hopefully will work. But he goes to the toilet and does not make it to the seat or try to he stands in the doorway and wee.s
I clean up the bathroom i have a jug he uses now but i cant go out at all as i do not know where he will go, i said to him yesterday im just in the garden shout me if you need to go, as i hold the jug for him, i came in 2 mins later to see him weeing on the table. He gets cross at me at night when he wakes and calls me names as im trying to help him go it the pot, to save me cleaning the bathroom, he holds on to his troucers and pushes me away, so then he just goes in the pjs.
I know he loves me as he tells me, but i got so upset the other night and cried for ages he never seemed to notice and didnt cuddle me he just went to sleep. so different from the hubby i knew, he was so getle and would never swear at me and always cuddle me if i was upset. I know its not him but i cant help but get upset.
if i hurt he never notices or i feel poorly, im so tired as i wake up during the night when he does so as to make sure he doesnt wee everywhere, but i cant catch up as i have to be awake to help him or if i dont im cleaning up.
This is such an awful disease, we also found out as well as being checked every 4 months on his bladder cancer the doctor thinks there is some cancer in his prostate too. he is my soul mate waht can i do im scared.
I clean up the bathroom i have a jug he uses now but i cant go out at all as i do not know where he will go, i said to him yesterday im just in the garden shout me if you need to go, as i hold the jug for him, i came in 2 mins later to see him weeing on the table. He gets cross at me at night when he wakes and calls me names as im trying to help him go it the pot, to save me cleaning the bathroom, he holds on to his troucers and pushes me away, so then he just goes in the pjs.
I know he loves me as he tells me, but i got so upset the other night and cried for ages he never seemed to notice and didnt cuddle me he just went to sleep. so different from the hubby i knew, he was so getle and would never swear at me and always cuddle me if i was upset. I know its not him but i cant help but get upset.
if i hurt he never notices or i feel poorly, im so tired as i wake up during the night when he does so as to make sure he doesnt wee everywhere, but i cant catch up as i have to be awake to help him or if i dont im cleaning up.
This is such an awful disease, we also found out as well as being checked every 4 months on his bladder cancer the doctor thinks there is some cancer in his prostate too. he is my soul mate waht can i do im scared.