I haven't been here for ages. Mum is now in a home and settled so life plods along for her.
I have POA and when Dad died in 2010 he left Mum in a very good financial position. However the house was in a state and needed a lot of work doing which we have done over recent years.
This means we now have a decent house but not so much cash.
The care home fees went up in April (by 25% !!) .
We (4 siblings) never wanted to sell the house but we have to be realistic.
One of my sisters has decided she will move into the house. My concern is that as POA I know that Mum has enough money to pay at the current rate for probably 18 months . At the end of 18 months we could decide to sell the house but if it takes a year to sell can we rack up a care bill to be paid out of the estate at a later date.
Sorry - I realise that this is a complete ramble. I'm happy to be POA but feel things are getting too complicated .
I have POA and when Dad died in 2010 he left Mum in a very good financial position. However the house was in a state and needed a lot of work doing which we have done over recent years.
This means we now have a decent house but not so much cash.
The care home fees went up in April (by 25% !!) .
We (4 siblings) never wanted to sell the house but we have to be realistic.
One of my sisters has decided she will move into the house. My concern is that as POA I know that Mum has enough money to pay at the current rate for probably 18 months . At the end of 18 months we could decide to sell the house but if it takes a year to sell can we rack up a care bill to be paid out of the estate at a later date.
Sorry - I realise that this is a complete ramble. I'm happy to be POA but feel things are getting too complicated .