Hello, I'm new on the site. My mum, age 89, has been living with vascular dementia for the passed 5 years and she is now in the later stages. She was also recently diagnosed with mixed dementia, now having Alzheimer's as well. She lives at home with my dad and between the two of us we care for her. To date we've had no help but since my mum fell 5 weeks ago her dementia has become much worse and so I think we're at the point where we're out of our depth. She broke her wrist and her shoulder and was in plaster for 4 weeks. The plaster came off last week but she seems to have gone downhill fast since then. She is sleeping up to 20 hours a day, her appetite is very poor and we're having a job to encourage her to eat even a little bit of food, although we have managed to give her a daily ensure so far. We called the paramedics a few days ago as she seemed almost comatose. We went to hospital and all her vitals were good and the blood tests showed no problems. While we were in the hospital she woke up and seemed much better. She managed to bare her weight when the physio stood her up and she even managed a few words. We were sent home where she immediately reverted back to sleeping all the time, hardly eating, being unable to stand or bare her own weight and saying very little, although when she is awake she still manages a smile and squeezes our hand. I'm at a loss to understand what is going on. She's also beginning to have a problem swallowing. We've set in motion a visit for a care needs assessment as my dad is finally admitting we need a little bit of support. Has anyone got any tips or information on the swallowing problem as this is what worries me most. And also tips for caring for someone at home in the later stages. Thank you.