Hi, ScaretPimple here again.
Today mum (she has memory problems) rang Boots to get them to give her some more low dose aspirin which she takes every day.
She said she'd run out and got me to drive in to collect it.
If I'd known she'd "run out" I'd have hunted for them before she got as far as ringing the chemists. But she's so independent that she still thinks she can cope with everything herself.
So... I drove to Boots and picked it up. Turned out they'd made up ALL her pills. (She takes 3 different meds everyday.)
I got them to put the aspirin into a separate bag. And gave her just that one.
She then said "No, that's not the one. I've got that one."
Which worried me. I mean, how do I explain that I'd kept some back from her without thus putting her back up?
I was thinking, she'll be correct, I AM an interferring officious little busybody!
Sigh.
I needn't have worried...
Turned out that my first suspicion was correct and she hadn't run out of ANYTHING.
She had all 3 of her essential meds, just scattered between upstairs and downstairs.
Up to now, she's been just about okay taking the same things every morning.
One of each, once a day.
Now this is another thing to worry about.
So I've kept back the new lot of meds.
Managed to surreptitiously hang on to the new lot of aspirin too.
I can just give them all to her when she next runs out, as if I've just collected them.
That way her self esteem remains intact. (Hopefully).
She won't sign a paper so that the Doctor can talk to me about her health. Therefore I have no right to know.
So I just sit here in limbo worrying all the time.
She doesn't have the same number of each medication left... what if she takes more than a single tablet of one of them?
God I wish there was something I could do!!!!
I think I'll end up with a heart attack from all the worry and angst.
HAVE I done the right thing?
Today mum (she has memory problems) rang Boots to get them to give her some more low dose aspirin which she takes every day.
She said she'd run out and got me to drive in to collect it.
If I'd known she'd "run out" I'd have hunted for them before she got as far as ringing the chemists. But she's so independent that she still thinks she can cope with everything herself.
So... I drove to Boots and picked it up. Turned out they'd made up ALL her pills. (She takes 3 different meds everyday.)
I got them to put the aspirin into a separate bag. And gave her just that one.
She then said "No, that's not the one. I've got that one."
Which worried me. I mean, how do I explain that I'd kept some back from her without thus putting her back up?
I was thinking, she'll be correct, I AM an interferring officious little busybody!
Sigh.
I needn't have worried...
Turned out that my first suspicion was correct and she hadn't run out of ANYTHING.
She had all 3 of her essential meds, just scattered between upstairs and downstairs.
Up to now, she's been just about okay taking the same things every morning.
One of each, once a day.
Now this is another thing to worry about.
So I've kept back the new lot of meds.
Managed to surreptitiously hang on to the new lot of aspirin too.
I can just give them all to her when she next runs out, as if I've just collected them.
That way her self esteem remains intact. (Hopefully).
She won't sign a paper so that the Doctor can talk to me about her health. Therefore I have no right to know.
So I just sit here in limbo worrying all the time.
She doesn't have the same number of each medication left... what if she takes more than a single tablet of one of them?
God I wish there was something I could do!!!!
I think I'll end up with a heart attack from all the worry and angst.
HAVE I done the right thing?
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