Help please!
My wife is enduring a torrid time and we have raised the white flag.
My wife,s relationship with her parents is a distance one, after her dad started with memory loss her mum and sister asked to step in and help sort.
So, she contacted the doctor, memory clinic, got him diagnosed with dementia all tickerty boo!
Until, my wife looked into her mum and dads finances and guess what there little money, her mum says she spends it, although mum and dad have not been out of the house for years.
Although they have an income of £20K p/a little in the bank.
My wife and her brother put an financial action plan in place and told her mum to work to it, since then my wife has endured a torrid time from her mum and sister.
Every few days her sisters son is withdrawing £250 cash every few days and it looks like its being happening for years, tens of thousands of pounds gone!! wow
Wow!! fill your boots.
My wife and I are good/ helpful people, we contacted the police and social services, ss says my wife's mum has mental capacity and are happy with the situ, police are helpful but its looking like the same response.
Conclusion, although my wife has POE for her dad ,its really unattainable, her mum and sister have given her a torrid time, since find the monies gone/going!
Her dad,s pension is 65% of her mum/dad income.
Not a good conclusion, left us wounded really, guess that whats happens if you care!
Age concern supported us really well and said its time to let go!
Whats your thoughts!!
x
My wife is enduring a torrid time and we have raised the white flag.
My wife,s relationship with her parents is a distance one, after her dad started with memory loss her mum and sister asked to step in and help sort.
So, she contacted the doctor, memory clinic, got him diagnosed with dementia all tickerty boo!
Until, my wife looked into her mum and dads finances and guess what there little money, her mum says she spends it, although mum and dad have not been out of the house for years.
Although they have an income of £20K p/a little in the bank.
My wife and her brother put an financial action plan in place and told her mum to work to it, since then my wife has endured a torrid time from her mum and sister.
Every few days her sisters son is withdrawing £250 cash every few days and it looks like its being happening for years, tens of thousands of pounds gone!! wow
Wow!! fill your boots.
My wife and I are good/ helpful people, we contacted the police and social services, ss says my wife's mum has mental capacity and are happy with the situ, police are helpful but its looking like the same response.
Conclusion, although my wife has POE for her dad ,its really unattainable, her mum and sister have given her a torrid time, since find the monies gone/going!
Her dad,s pension is 65% of her mum/dad income.
Not a good conclusion, left us wounded really, guess that whats happens if you care!
Age concern supported us really well and said its time to let go!
Whats your thoughts!!
x