At the beginning of November I posted that I was very sad. Here I am again feeling totally down. Not had a good week. OH got a cold and so stuck in all week as very cold outside. Not easy spending all day with OH nowadays. That is when you really notice the difference in the person. Today his cold has got progressively worse and he is rasping badly. Not easy getting him to take medication and we are still struggling with the inhalers he has just been issued with as he has recently been diagnosed with asthma. I have got more and more irritable today and ended up saying he was ruining my life and I was so unhappy living with him. Again I now feel so guilty and ashamed of myself. What a terrible journey this is, not only are you battling Alzheimer's, but battling your own emotions. Feeling the loss of the person who was and not liking the person you are turning into. What is the answer? I find I cannot tell family and friends of my feelings, especially when people say you should consider yourself lucky you still have your husband, so I tell everyone I am ok. My sister phoned tonight after I had got OH dosed up and settled down but I did not answer her call as I was afraid I would burst into tears. I save those for myself. Thank goodness for you people out here, I can at least open up to you as you understand. Have made up the bed in the spare room as I thought I would be kept awake with him coughing all night but am sitting here thinking I should stay with him in case he is unwell and needs me. It's just like having a child again but my body is fighting it. Where is my lovely husband gone, I so want him back. Off to bed now, probably next to OH. Oh well hope for a better day tomorrow.