I feel my wife has lost/is losing cognitive skills. Once well able to handle home accounts she now struggles badly. She finds it hard to organise a weeks shopping in the supermarket. She forgets things even though they have been explained to her several times. She seems to take no interest in current affairs. I asked her to take money out of an ATM a couple of days ago and she struggled to so so. My question? What do I do about it? I don't want to tell her she needs to talk to a doctor as that will upset her and worry her. In any case I may be wrong and I don't want to accuse her unnecessarily. Perhaps I should just watch and see if it gets worse? This must be a worry that has concerned a lot of people. I love my wife very much and we have been married 55 years this year. She had a serious cancer 15 years ago from which she has recovered, but it has left her with problems she does well to overcome.