went to visit Mum today and got cross and hated myself for doing so. Got there and she said she had been lonely all morning. I go every other day plus she gets other visitors. Then she said one of her soft toys was missing but it isnt, I checked. Then she wanted a wee so I helped her to her ensuite. Just sat down again and back we had to go again to change her stoma bag. Got her all cleaned, tucked in and sat down and she wanted another wee. In total we went 4 - 3 times for a wee and she didnt do one at all and once for the stoma bag. Then the rest of the afternoon she went on and on about things going missing and I got cross with her. She doesnt have a urine infection as they check but she does have this toilet fixation.
I had spent all morning cooking a roast lunch for 5, sat down for half an hour afterwards and then drove 8 miles to visit her. My OH says I shouldnt go so often as its stressing me out but then I feel guilty like today when she said she felt lonely.
A carer came in and we had a chat and I said that Mum had been feeling lonely. She said about 5 other residents were having their tea in the upstairs lounge and she said she would come and get Mum if she wanted to join them. Straight away she was saying she wasnt very hungry and I could see she was trying to get out of it. I hung on and went down with her and theyd got a lovely tea of sandwiches, bowls of chips and homemade cakes! I noticed she was not talking much so went and got her new batteries for her hearing aids and she was like a different woman! I must remind the staff about changing her batteries because she cant do it herself.
I had spent all morning cooking a roast lunch for 5, sat down for half an hour afterwards and then drove 8 miles to visit her. My OH says I shouldnt go so often as its stressing me out but then I feel guilty like today when she said she felt lonely.
A carer came in and we had a chat and I said that Mum had been feeling lonely. She said about 5 other residents were having their tea in the upstairs lounge and she said she would come and get Mum if she wanted to join them. Straight away she was saying she wasnt very hungry and I could see she was trying to get out of it. I hung on and went down with her and theyd got a lovely tea of sandwiches, bowls of chips and homemade cakes! I noticed she was not talking much so went and got her new batteries for her hearing aids and she was like a different woman! I must remind the staff about changing her batteries because she cant do it herself.