hello everyone , my mum has vascular dementia, about two months ago I hired 5 carers taking turns to care for my mum 24 hrs a day ,I had a bit of trouble with Two of them but things were going ok , however my mum bite one of them one day while she was changing her nappy , nothing serious but the girl seems upset , she complained to the main carer and this person took her side , I was polite and offered some antiseptic cream, next day a person that cooks that has worked in the house for Two years commented that maybe mum felt attacked or scared that’s why she acted like that , the main carer seemed offended by this comments and took ofense like if the person that cooks was saying she didn’t know how to do her job properly, even suggested she could take one of the carers job, the main carer seems very moody since then even neglecting my mum , the problem is that all the carers are friends and they try to protect each other, every time I make a criticism or suggestion about the carers the main carer takes it personally , she even told me she has to defend her friends, I thought I had a good relationship with her until that incident , I want to start with another care agency but I talked to my mums doctor he said I should try to solve the situation with the carers I have because there is not guarantee I could get better carers , I could even get worse but he doesn’t know the situation very well
Thanks everyone for your reply
Thanks everyone for your reply
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