Last week I posted about my wife refusing all medication which had resulted in my being banished from her room in the NH. This literally came about in a time frame of 5 minutes or so. I had left her room to get some tea and when I returned she just shouted at me to get out and that she did not want to see me again .....EVER.
At the time is was put down to the lack of medication and the nursing staff worked to get things back to normal.
Today I was told that she now takes her medication normally and things seem to be back to normal in her world. However, she does not want to see me and refuses to talk about seeing me.
As we always do I have put this down to Dementia. However, the fallout is quite significant as it open the possibility that she may never want to see me again. And of course there are all sorts of other questions about health, medication and care that probably will arise if that is the case.
There does not seem to be anything personal as there is no specific accusation just that she does not want to see me any more.
Has anyone else experienced this at all? Does it pass? Where do we go from here?
Steve
At the time is was put down to the lack of medication and the nursing staff worked to get things back to normal.
Today I was told that she now takes her medication normally and things seem to be back to normal in her world. However, she does not want to see me and refuses to talk about seeing me.
As we always do I have put this down to Dementia. However, the fallout is quite significant as it open the possibility that she may never want to see me again. And of course there are all sorts of other questions about health, medication and care that probably will arise if that is the case.
There does not seem to be anything personal as there is no specific accusation just that she does not want to see me any more.
Has anyone else experienced this at all? Does it pass? Where do we go from here?
Steve