My Mum has alzheimers and has been in a residential home for 6 months. My sister and I both visit and take her out as she does enjoy that and is very mobile. However, the outing is always spoilt on the way home with her demands to be allowed to leave the home and go back to her own home. Obviously this cant happen as she now needs to be secure for her own safety. Whatever we say is wrong and she gets aggressive and very cross. We obviously try and change the subject but she is having none of it and is in complete denial that there is anything wrong with her. It is very hard as we want to do nice things with her but dread the end of the trip. Should we visit less and not take her out? The home do have various activities and the residents get taken out occasionally and apparently there are no problems with her whilst she is with the carers. Help!