I’m sure I’m not the first one to have this problem. My mum has Alzheimer’s. She has been told but cannot remember and doesn’t think there is anything wrong with her. She is extremely muddled barely knows who we are. She hasn’t been taking any of her meds. She has got in a total mess over her money which we have now taken control of. Unfortunately none of us live close by and it seems almost daily there is a small crisis that one of us has to go over to sort it out . She has no insight into her illness and cannot see there is a problem. When she was well she was adamant she never wanted to live with any of her children and none of our homes are suitable for her either. She often said she would go into the Care home which is very near to my sister and it is where my Aunt lived. When we broached the subject to my mum she, uncharacteristically , became very angry and said no way was she going into a home ever. She said she would be bored and have nothing to do. The thing is she doesn’t do anything at home now that she can’t do in the home.
What are other people’s experiences? The Care home does have vacancies and seems very caring and lovely and specialises in dementia. How can we allay my Mum’s fears. We don’t want to force the issue but we are very concerned about her safety. Any suggestions ideas welcome.
What are other people’s experiences? The Care home does have vacancies and seems very caring and lovely and specialises in dementia. How can we allay my Mum’s fears. We don’t want to force the issue but we are very concerned about her safety. Any suggestions ideas welcome.