Sounds like a good planShe’s presently zonked out in the lounge, I’m thinking of joining her after I’ve hung the washing.
Our travel budget is looking slim at the moment and we have a lot of things that need doing to the house, but I have started to wonder about a trip to the UK. I've been to London and a few day trips from there and that's it. It might be time I saw some of the rest of the UK, plus Ireland, don't you think? I've no idea how we would organize this, mind you. But it's a thought.
Sam, I can definitely understand you not wanting to leave your mum alone, I really can. But you can't be a prisoner in the house. I don't mean to upset you, I'm sorry.
Sounds like a good plan
Theres several of us on the south coast. Brighton is quite central and could be good for a general meet-up
Just a thought Sam is it possible your Mum could or would maybe sleep downstairs, could her bed be brought downstairs just until she regains more balance. I know I would do exactly the same as you on the stairs but I do cringe at the thought of what could happen. Good job we are not weaklings isn't it!!
Sam, could the upstairs loo develop a plumbing problem, just for one day, so your mum has to use the downstairs one a few times.Hi @rosy18
The befriender is coming to meet Mum tomorrow. I’ve told Mum that’s its for me to have a break, so I want her to give it a go. I can well see Mum throwing a wobbly & saying she doesn’t need a baby sitter. Heaven only knows what they will do. Mum reads & sleeps with hourly trips up the stairs to the loo, back too the kitchen, where she makes her tea, drinks, then zimmer back to the lounge. It’s here exercise routine until Physio come up with suggestions If they can’t help her with the stairs & I mean just be there to talk her down, I won’t be able to leave the house for more than an hour. But, I’m going to be positive. I can walk pooch for an hour, do the loo trip & go shopping for an hour. It’s the break from dementia I want. Lthiygh I have fantasies about crawling into bed & sleeping
Oh @rosy18 i wish. We have a brand new, refurbed downstairs loo, I spent forever finding a sink that wouId fit, bit she refuses to use it. Says she doesn’t like it. We have a chaise long that makes into a double bed in the lounge, but she wants to sleep in her bed
I don’t touch or hold Mum on the stairs. I’m just near her. I think it helps her confidence, not sure how much use I’d be if she missed a step, but I can’t seem to walk away