Hattie Jacques Matron “and how are we today”
Now I am going off in my mind in a completely different direction thinking of Kenneth Williams and Oh I say Matron!
Hattie Jacques Matron “and how are we today”
Why do all healthcare professionals refer to my mother as "mum" when speaking to me? It's as if she no longer has a name or personality. She's just generic "mum". I didn't even call her "mum"! Does anyone else find this incredibly patronising and disrespectful? Why do they do this? Is it because there are so many elderly people in their care that's it's easier to just call them all "mum" and "dad" without having to bother learning their names? Surely it would be better to refer to parents as "your mother" or "your father". I find this whole thing really upsetting and often feel like putting the phone down or walking away after repeatedly stating "my mother's name is ...." and being ignored.
Why do all healthcare professionals refer to my mother as "mum" when speaking to me? It's as if she no longer has a name or personality. She's just generic "mum". I didn't even call her "mum"! Does anyone else find this incredibly patronising and disrespectful? Why do they do this? Is it because there are so many elderly people in their care that's it's easier to just call them all "mum" and "dad" without having to bother learning their names? Surely it would be better to refer to parents as "your mother" or "your father". I find this whole thing really upsetting and often feel like putting the phone down or walking away after repeatedly stating "my mother's name is ...." and being ignored.
Maybe you should!I think this thread is hilarious. Perhaps I should move to Australia.