When I was looking after dad the week after mum died suddenly at home ...dad had chest pains and spent overnight in hospital and as is usual he had a wristband put on which I removed the following day at his house.
A month or so later I found him busily writing something on the wristband...he took ages to write it and when he had finished and gone out of the room it was a note to his long dead older brother who moved to New Zealand in the 60s...it said...
"Please can I visit you I won't be any trouble"...brought me to tears...he must have been feeling dreadful but couldn't verbally articulate that.
Anyway dad died last March and I have finally today felt like going through his little cupboard he had by his chair in his NH room...and so found the wristband at the back of a little drawer. I had forgotten all about
it....tears are flowing....blast this rotten illness that can still bite you on your bottom when you find something so sad 10 months later!
A month or so later I found him busily writing something on the wristband...he took ages to write it and when he had finished and gone out of the room it was a note to his long dead older brother who moved to New Zealand in the 60s...it said...
"Please can I visit you I won't be any trouble"...brought me to tears...he must have been feeling dreadful but couldn't verbally articulate that.
Anyway dad died last March and I have finally today felt like going through his little cupboard he had by his chair in his NH room...and so found the wristband at the back of a little drawer. I had forgotten all about
it....tears are flowing....blast this rotten illness that can still bite you on your bottom when you find something so sad 10 months later!