Haven't posted on this forum for a while, but the situation that I'm dealing with is as follows:-
Relation moves into a home and shows signs of short term memory loss. Referred to CMT and MMSE score is 30/30. Diagnosis is short term memory loss. They seem to settle in to home quite well. In the interim they appoint me as Attorney for H & W, but solicitor has LPA for P & F. They then say they want me to find a new solicitor - I suggested someone from Solicitors for the Elderly- to revoke the current LPA and appoint me instead.
The next thing I know the care home manager informs me that they have told the solicitor that my relation has dementia and that they have been talking about a will! I contact GP and am told that current solicitor has written to them asking questions. As I have LPA for H&W, can the solicitor request this information?
AS helpline advisor informs me that the manager should have asked my relative for permission prior to contacting the solicitor and before speaking to me about the will. My relation was furious that this had happened, but went on to explain the situation.
I've never encountered a care home manager like this in the past.
I want to act in my relation's best interests, but at the moment it seems like an uphill struggle. Your thoughts would be appreciated.
Relation moves into a home and shows signs of short term memory loss. Referred to CMT and MMSE score is 30/30. Diagnosis is short term memory loss. They seem to settle in to home quite well. In the interim they appoint me as Attorney for H & W, but solicitor has LPA for P & F. They then say they want me to find a new solicitor - I suggested someone from Solicitors for the Elderly- to revoke the current LPA and appoint me instead.
The next thing I know the care home manager informs me that they have told the solicitor that my relation has dementia and that they have been talking about a will! I contact GP and am told that current solicitor has written to them asking questions. As I have LPA for H&W, can the solicitor request this information?
AS helpline advisor informs me that the manager should have asked my relative for permission prior to contacting the solicitor and before speaking to me about the will. My relation was furious that this had happened, but went on to explain the situation.
I've never encountered a care home manager like this in the past.
I want to act in my relation's best interests, but at the moment it seems like an uphill struggle. Your thoughts would be appreciated.