So as you all know after 8 years living with me, Mum went into local Care Home earlier this week.
She had stopped going to day care, she had stopped getting dressed most days, she had not had a bath for a few months, she was waking me up 4/5 times a night, she had poor appetite and not drinking much and quite anxious.
Well today I visited she was sitting in the lounge, dressed smartly, nails painted, hair washed and styled by one of the carers( not washed for 5 months). She looked far better than she has in months. She was pleased to see me told me she had actually had a bath and could find her own way to the toilet. They said she had made friends with a man there who she had lunch with on her first day and that the two of them chat a lot. And that last night Mum had slept ALL night, no getting up! Mum did say to me I don't know why I'm here and with this sudden change I am wondering too! It is very early days and I am quite prepared for a bomb to drop at anytime. She is on her best behaviour and in hostess mode I think. She may not be able to keep it up for too long. They did say she has refused to join in any activities so far but I still came away happy.
She had stopped going to day care, she had stopped getting dressed most days, she had not had a bath for a few months, she was waking me up 4/5 times a night, she had poor appetite and not drinking much and quite anxious.
Well today I visited she was sitting in the lounge, dressed smartly, nails painted, hair washed and styled by one of the carers( not washed for 5 months). She looked far better than she has in months. She was pleased to see me told me she had actually had a bath and could find her own way to the toilet. They said she had made friends with a man there who she had lunch with on her first day and that the two of them chat a lot. And that last night Mum had slept ALL night, no getting up! Mum did say to me I don't know why I'm here and with this sudden change I am wondering too! It is very early days and I am quite prepared for a bomb to drop at anytime. She is on her best behaviour and in hostess mode I think. She may not be able to keep it up for too long. They did say she has refused to join in any activities so far but I still came away happy.