Hi everyone,
My 91-year-old mother has had mixed (Alzheimer's and vascular) for some years now but has seriously deteriorated in the last couple of years. We got her into a Care Home in August but having lots of problems communicating with the Council and Care Home about fees now the 12-week property disregard is up and Mom's house has been sold. Long story short, we had been paying a top-up directly to the Home at their insistence while the council contributed to the costs as the initial quote of £500 a week went up to £610 as soon as we accepted the room. Now the Care Home has not only put up the fees again but invoiced Mom for £2500 to be paid in advance (4 week's fees) whilst the Council are also asking for £500 a week. Care Home keep changing their story about fees and the Council don't respond to emails or phone calls asking for clarification. Social worker is nowhere to be seen. We're obviously new to all this. Can anyone share any advice or experiences about this kind of situation? It's quite different from what the literature describes as normal. We're at our wits' end and are also worried because we can foresee that Mom's capital will run out within 2 years .
My 91-year-old mother has had mixed (Alzheimer's and vascular) for some years now but has seriously deteriorated in the last couple of years. We got her into a Care Home in August but having lots of problems communicating with the Council and Care Home about fees now the 12-week property disregard is up and Mom's house has been sold. Long story short, we had been paying a top-up directly to the Home at their insistence while the council contributed to the costs as the initial quote of £500 a week went up to £610 as soon as we accepted the room. Now the Care Home has not only put up the fees again but invoiced Mom for £2500 to be paid in advance (4 week's fees) whilst the Council are also asking for £500 a week. Care Home keep changing their story about fees and the Council don't respond to emails or phone calls asking for clarification. Social worker is nowhere to be seen. We're obviously new to all this. Can anyone share any advice or experiences about this kind of situation? It's quite different from what the literature describes as normal. We're at our wits' end and are also worried because we can foresee that Mom's capital will run out within 2 years .