To say I am absolutely disgusted is an understatement,
My father had been in hospital since the end of August after being admitted from a care home suffering from dehydration, delium and a chest infection. It was then discovered he had a fractured hip.
He was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in September although for a few years there was a question mark regarding Lewy Body Dementia.
7 weeks ago he was assessed for CHC but turned down and it was stated that he has capacity and had agreed to go to a 24hr Nursing home., which is questionable as he told me and other staff he was going to no f***ing home and the fact also that 4 days previously a DoLS had to be put in place to rehydrate him, because he went on hunger strike in protest, which he does alot and why he ended up up in the hospital.
For the past few weeks I have been having meetings and visiting trying to persuade him, along with social workers, discharge staff etc that he can't stay in hospital and needs to go to a Nursing home.
He has had a persistent cough for weeks which i questioning and was told, it's not a chest infection and we are keeping an eye on it. He is also back on thickened fluids.
I attended a meeting again last Tuesday and was informed that the Dr had asked for a psychiatrist to assess him. Saw my father with a Social Worker and Discharge Lead to again try and persuade him that he needs to go to a Nursing Home and even the Discharge Lead mentioned his cough and said she would see what was been done. We had a full conversion with him.
To cut a long story short, psychiatrist visited on Wednesday and decided he has lost capacity but kept repeating he was tired. I spoke to her and she agreed she would reassess him, sometime this week.
My brother was speaking to my father on Friday and noticed he was slurring his words and not his normal self and he actually said, i think he is becoming dehyradated again and also a friend visited him yesterday morning and was concerned but couldn't find any nurses and was basically ignored by an axillary nurse.
Imagine my surprise when yesterday afternoon getting a phone call to say they thought I should go to the hospital as my father was deteriorating rapidly and a Dr wanted to speak to me. I was unable to go and said I would go this morning but if he got worse to let me know and I would go.
Phoned the hospital this morning and told he was the same as in the past few weeks, when I explained the phone call i had received yesterday she said i will get the doctor to phone you.
Spoke with the Dr, who had been to see him yesterday and this morning and I explained that both my brother and i thought he was just dehyradrated as we have witnessed this, with the same systoms many times before and he now also said my dad had a chest infection, to which I said that i had been querying that for weeks. He agreed it might be dehydration and would put my father on a drip for fluids and antibiotics.
I have just phoned the hospital and guess what, he is back to normal, eating and drinking and keeps asking for milk.
The whole point of this is had we as family, not realized that his symptoms were all related to dehydration, they were slowly letting him die and pretending this is what normally happens to old and frail people as we were told.
I would also like to say, that this is not the first time this has happened to my father but twice in another hospital and only for my brother intervening the same was happening.
It is digusting that the people that are suppose to care for our loved ones don't and what about the hypocritical oath that Dr's take.
So remember if someone you know becomes confused, slurring speech and basically almost losing consciousness. This can also be the symptoms of dehydration.
Sorry for the long post but I am both physically and mentally exhausted at the moment.
My father had been in hospital since the end of August after being admitted from a care home suffering from dehydration, delium and a chest infection. It was then discovered he had a fractured hip.
He was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in September although for a few years there was a question mark regarding Lewy Body Dementia.
7 weeks ago he was assessed for CHC but turned down and it was stated that he has capacity and had agreed to go to a 24hr Nursing home., which is questionable as he told me and other staff he was going to no f***ing home and the fact also that 4 days previously a DoLS had to be put in place to rehydrate him, because he went on hunger strike in protest, which he does alot and why he ended up up in the hospital.
For the past few weeks I have been having meetings and visiting trying to persuade him, along with social workers, discharge staff etc that he can't stay in hospital and needs to go to a Nursing home.
He has had a persistent cough for weeks which i questioning and was told, it's not a chest infection and we are keeping an eye on it. He is also back on thickened fluids.
I attended a meeting again last Tuesday and was informed that the Dr had asked for a psychiatrist to assess him. Saw my father with a Social Worker and Discharge Lead to again try and persuade him that he needs to go to a Nursing Home and even the Discharge Lead mentioned his cough and said she would see what was been done. We had a full conversion with him.
To cut a long story short, psychiatrist visited on Wednesday and decided he has lost capacity but kept repeating he was tired. I spoke to her and she agreed she would reassess him, sometime this week.
My brother was speaking to my father on Friday and noticed he was slurring his words and not his normal self and he actually said, i think he is becoming dehyradated again and also a friend visited him yesterday morning and was concerned but couldn't find any nurses and was basically ignored by an axillary nurse.
Imagine my surprise when yesterday afternoon getting a phone call to say they thought I should go to the hospital as my father was deteriorating rapidly and a Dr wanted to speak to me. I was unable to go and said I would go this morning but if he got worse to let me know and I would go.
Phoned the hospital this morning and told he was the same as in the past few weeks, when I explained the phone call i had received yesterday she said i will get the doctor to phone you.
Spoke with the Dr, who had been to see him yesterday and this morning and I explained that both my brother and i thought he was just dehyradrated as we have witnessed this, with the same systoms many times before and he now also said my dad had a chest infection, to which I said that i had been querying that for weeks. He agreed it might be dehydration and would put my father on a drip for fluids and antibiotics.
I have just phoned the hospital and guess what, he is back to normal, eating and drinking and keeps asking for milk.
The whole point of this is had we as family, not realized that his symptoms were all related to dehydration, they were slowly letting him die and pretending this is what normally happens to old and frail people as we were told.
I would also like to say, that this is not the first time this has happened to my father but twice in another hospital and only for my brother intervening the same was happening.
It is digusting that the people that are suppose to care for our loved ones don't and what about the hypocritical oath that Dr's take.
So remember if someone you know becomes confused, slurring speech and basically almost losing consciousness. This can also be the symptoms of dehydration.
Sorry for the long post but I am both physically and mentally exhausted at the moment.