Thank you one and all - I am learning about this awful disease all the time - and appreciate your help.
We have had intervention by the local Mental Health Team - the guy was very good and came to see us 3 times. He has now discharged us with the instructions to ask for another referral as and when needed.
I expressed concerns that my partner is not interested in anything much - so out of character. He will not go to the memory cafe in our village, or take part in any of the activities that are outlined in the AS literature. Previously he was active, intelligent, musical, enquiring - but now all he wants to do is sit in front of the TV all day. This itself is, to me, odd, as he refused to even have a TV in the house until we were given one in April.
The guy from the MHT said that my partner 'lives in the moment' and that he exudes contentment, and if sitting in front of the TV makes him happy, that is what he should do.
It does somewhat make me a prisoner in my own home, as he cannot be left. But that is by the by.
My main question, if anyone can answer this, is - from what I have detailed above, is it possible for anyone to assess how advanced his vascular dementia is? I am a genealogist by profession and have an enquiring mind - and it is niggling me - I keep trying to work out how long he must have had this disease before the diagnosis in Feb - not that it makes any difference to anything really.
Thank you for welcoming me to the group and thank you for reading.