My poor mum, after an ischaemic stroke in August which left her left side weakened, is now doubly incontinent. I have carers coming three times a day to help me. Sometimes these visits time in with a pad change, and sometimes they don't, that's just the way it is, and I just have to get on with it when I'm on my own. But the evenings are really hard. I'm tired by the end of the day, the evening carer usually comes around 8-ish and mum's pad will be dry. An hour after she's left, the pad needs changing. It's SO hard doing this alone. All the rolling from side to side, mum shouting that she's cold, washing, drying, re-applying pad. One of the carers suggested I put a disposable incontinence sheet between the pad (I use all in one pads) and the nightie, which at least saves me having to change her nightie as well. By the time I've done that, she's halfway down the bed, and she's not small nor light, so then the added challenge of dragging her up the bed on the Wendylet sheet on my own.
Anyone else have these challenges? Any ideas on making the evening/night time changes easier? I suppose I could just go to bed after the last care call and leave her in the same pad all night, but I can't do that knowing that she has probably wet the pad. In a way, I find the bowel movements easier to deal with! I am still in touch with the Continence Clinic, who are trying to help me by sending different samples of things to try, but at the moment the only thing that seems to contain her night time toileting activity is a very 'industrial' and highly absorbent all in one pad. I have ordered some booster pads in the hope that adding one of these into the 'industrial' pad that I use will help to contain everything.
Anyone else have these challenges? Any ideas on making the evening/night time changes easier? I suppose I could just go to bed after the last care call and leave her in the same pad all night, but I can't do that knowing that she has probably wet the pad. In a way, I find the bowel movements easier to deal with! I am still in touch with the Continence Clinic, who are trying to help me by sending different samples of things to try, but at the moment the only thing that seems to contain her night time toileting activity is a very 'industrial' and highly absorbent all in one pad. I have ordered some booster pads in the hope that adding one of these into the 'industrial' pad that I use will help to contain everything.