Hi
I'm sure this is a familiar theme. My Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers a couple of years ago. She has good days and bad days but also periods where she is withdrawn and will spend all of her time in bed. My father is 78 and is her sole carer. I'm worried that he is lonely but also that he is painted as the bad guy as he tries to encourage Mum to be more active. She refuses to consider a daily walk, which doctors have richly suggested would be good for her overall health. In reality I don't think she like to leave the house and I'm not sure whether this is anxiety or depression of some kind - she lacks any motivation but is very firm if she doesn't want to do anything.
As a family we try to support my Dad but this is typically limited to weekend visits because my sister and I work in the week.
I'd welcome any advice and guidance on how we can get my Mum more motivated and how we can establish a routine so that she doesn't spend whole days in bed.
I'm sure this is a familiar theme. My Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers a couple of years ago. She has good days and bad days but also periods where she is withdrawn and will spend all of her time in bed. My father is 78 and is her sole carer. I'm worried that he is lonely but also that he is painted as the bad guy as he tries to encourage Mum to be more active. She refuses to consider a daily walk, which doctors have richly suggested would be good for her overall health. In reality I don't think she like to leave the house and I'm not sure whether this is anxiety or depression of some kind - she lacks any motivation but is very firm if she doesn't want to do anything.
As a family we try to support my Dad but this is typically limited to weekend visits because my sister and I work in the week.
I'd welcome any advice and guidance on how we can get my Mum more motivated and how we can establish a routine so that she doesn't spend whole days in bed.