]I still miss him and the pain for his loss will never end.
Over the years the pain has become shorter in time and less frequent, but it has never lost its intensity. When it comes back it is still as it was those days seventeen years ago.
The intensity of the pain of loss even although for a shorter time and less frequent, is something I feel with remain with me. It is only 18 months since my husband died, but we met 61 years ago and married 59 years ago. Life goes on, there can now be spells of what I can only call "calmer pain of loss" - grief. But when it is worse the intensity is overwhelming.
@Raggedy Anne. Henry also loved Christmas. I am dreading this one more than last..
Loo xxx
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