This reminded me about how we decorated the tree when we were kids. No fancy baubles, lights or streamers then so we made everything ourselves. We saved the shiny tops from the milk bottles and washed each one before they went into the bag so they wouldn't get smelly. Then we tied them in strings to hang on the tree.
We spent hours folding yards of crepe paper into streamers of different colours and made a star from stiff cardboard and painted it silver. We made little angels out of cardboard and gave them hair made out of cotton wool. We tried making streamers out of coloured popcorn but decided we had to eat them early before it went stale. We painted old ping pong balls in bright colours and half squashed them trying to get the thread through.
There was no problem with storing our decorations away for next year because they all went straight into the bin but we always thought we had the prettiest Christmas tree ever.
Christmas is a day when people shar the day not all the trimings. So why not have an alternative day. Watch to and eat junk food enjoy the day xxxWhat are your plans? Will you celebrate solo style or will you crawl under the duvet and hibernate?
I'm not even sure where I can safely put a tree this year without Dad falling over it or weeing on it to water it!.
As for Christmas dinner- whatever I give him will be full of bones, too hot, too cold etc
Can't give him any alcohol becasue of all the medications, no doubt family will be otherwise engaged.
For the last 3 or 4 years I've had to buy wrap the presents up he's giving me and open his presents that I've bought for him.
Looking for inspiration how to pass the time - Dad may well be fast asleep in bed all day if anything like the last 2 weeks.
I agree, it’s a day arbitrary decided to celebrate the birth of Christ.Christmas is a day when people shar the day not all the trimings. So why not have an alternative day. Watch to and eat junk food enjoy the day xxx
Like last year we will be in Cyprus. My wife hasn't deteriorated too much so we will probably do the same as last year - buy some festive goodies and spend the day inside making pigs of ourselves, apart from an afternoon stroll on what is likely to be a mild day with a temperature of 17-19C!!
I intend to keep our winters abroad going for as long as possible and that my be for longer than I thought a few months back as my wife is, thankfully, responding very well to the medication she is now taking. Fingers crossed anyway!
Call me old fashioned @Lawson58, (I was born in the 60s), but in a way it's a shame everything in life is so easily available now, I don't think people appreciate what they have. I also remember making paper chains from coloured paper and in fact I still have some very, very ancient Christmas decorations which belonged to my father - they must have been bought in the 60s/50s. I don't think I will ever throw them away - yet even though they are so old, they are so colourful still! I don't use them - just look at them each year when I get the box out.
My mum, before dementia caught hold of her, used to tell me stories about their Christmases 'back home', how they used things from nature to decorate the tree and also how they used to bake biscuits to tie on. She also used to tell me about some 'flickering candles' they used to attach to the branches - they can't have been battery operated as I'm sure they would not have been around then - maybe they were real candles. Imagine that being allowed in this day and age!
I think progress is great, but we've lost a lot of what used to be good in life. Maybe I'm just old enough now to reminisce about the 'good old days'!
Thanks for that. i have heard that combined treatment can be more effective. OH is only on 5mg donepizil, 10mg was too much and made him verbally aggressive. He is also on a trial, but I suspect getting placebo (or its just not working).Donepezil and Memantine