Hello , my mom is in the later stages of Alzheimers. However she has quit eating on her own , and will eat and drink if fed. Just today the Home Nurse said it would be better to quit giving her food an water, as we are just prolonging the inevitable. VSED they call it. I'm having hard time with this as she is still able to speak, and react, talk. She still laughs, smiles.... Likes to give hugs and kisses... and can respond to questions sometimes.. So why would anyone want to watch her starve or dehydrate.. to hasten EOL. She does have trouble swallowing due to Thrush from lack of Saliva. But she still for the most part willingly will eat if fed, and will hold a cup and drink. However may not be a lot. I think for the home nurse to suggest that we should just let her dehydrate is wrong. .
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