I finally got round to visiting our nearest LA owned residential/nursing home today. I have to say, I was mighty impressed! It was clean, seemed very well organised, people looked calm and well cared for, no bad smells, nice, quiet environment. Reasonable rooms, no luxury, but clean and functional. I went into the nursing side as I believe that's where mum would be allocated to, now that she is immobile. They confirmed that if she needs hoisting, then that would be the case. At times it felt like a cross between a care home and hospital, but perhaps that's how nursing homes are meant to feel? I happened upon a very elderly lady in one of the small lounge areas with her daughter/son in law. The daughter spent a long time telling me that if my mother were to go there, she is sure I would be very happy with the care, as she has been for two years. The staff were very happy to show me around and explained that they do not have a list, it is based on people's needs and subsequent assessments. They told me they "do things differently" as they are not run for profit like private homes. They also said they do not take self funding residents, which surprised me.
It all looked good. No calling around, no waiting for months on a list to pay a top up of up to £1k a week, or more even (south east).
Does anyone have a relative in an LA owned home? Can it really be this good? Have I overlooked something? I may need to consider a home soon as I'm finding it increasingly difficult to cope with mum's new and very high needs (immobile and doubly incontinent after a stroke). Maybe I have finally found a suitable back up plan?
It all looked good. No calling around, no waiting for months on a list to pay a top up of up to £1k a week, or more even (south east).
Does anyone have a relative in an LA owned home? Can it really be this good? Have I overlooked something? I may need to consider a home soon as I'm finding it increasingly difficult to cope with mum's new and very high needs (immobile and doubly incontinent after a stroke). Maybe I have finally found a suitable back up plan?
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