My mother has moved into a care home, firstly for respite, but potentially to be a long term resident for however long she has left. My question is what should we expect in terms of care? The home is beautiful and mum seems settled already. Lots of activities and pleasant staff but my concern is over how closely they monitor her food and fluid intake etc. They have not been forthcoming with information and I get the feeling that the level of supervision and record keeping may not be as detailed or close as I would like. Are there any baseline standards that homes should follow? It would be useful to know what to expect - the home is very expensive and is a nursing home but I feel a little disappointed with the level of communication from staff. It feels like it's down to me to ask how she is all the time. I would have thought they would offer this information, especially to relatives of a new resident who is poorly. I hope she is not being forgotten about. I do not want to keep bothering the staff as I know they are busy but it is my mother and I want the best for her. Any advice on how best to broach my concerns with the home would be appreciated.