Oh my. Huge hug Elaine to help you through these exhausting times.
Is there anybody who can take over a "shift" for you? With a taxi to the hospital? Just so that you can maybe just have a long soak in the bath or...do nothing, for an hour or two?
I understand that you want to be there for everything but you do need to recharge your own batteries too x
Hi HillyBilly I have had my internet down so not been able to get on sorry met with consultant Wednesday and the situation is not good at the moment we now need to go every day for the next 2 to 3 weeks so he can go on iv for 4hrs, it was decided his meducation was going to be changed but they are really juggling with his heart and kidneys he must get rid of 15lits of fluid easy said than done.
It is confirmed he's got Alzheimers and early start of Parkinsons but now the heart consultant and his doctor at the memory clinic have now said they can not treat these conditions with any form of medication because of his heart and kidneys being in such a critical condition and they upset his medication for his heart and kidneys so here we are going round in a circle.
At the end of the day we have to weigh everything up do we keep him reasonable well and a live or do we put his memory first and put up with him gone at the end of it all really big decision but I put his health first I can cope with the memory loss.
No afraid it's just me doing trips with him to hospital not much family left on both sides and son's work they do what they can but they need to work for money as they have responsibilities and houses to pay for both their partners work as well so how can you ask friends to sit there for 4hrs our friends are all mostly over 70 I could not do that to them and they are not in good health what a crowd we are lol.
I will be ok I just leave everything else around the house till the weekends I space thing out glad winter is here as the garden can look after it's self for a while.
Life is hard sometimes but I just get on with it cannot remember last time I had a glass of wine I have some just never get round to opening it worn out at the end of the day and just drop in bed it would be a waste of good wine. Thanks for hugs guess thats all I need for now.