We have received a bill today from the council relating to the new nursing/care home that we've moved my MIL into. She was previously in a care home and has had to be moved into a changed behaviour unit as she's become aggressive and agitated. The bill has come today and it's costing us £5,000 per month!!! We've had a meeting today with the CPN relating to CHC and there's no way MIL will supposedly get funding as she's apparently not bad enough! Even though she's aggressive and agitated and doesn't have any idea as to who/where/what is going on. My hubby is at 30,000 ft and climbing! He can't believe that his Mum who was a nurse for over 23 yrs and worked her socks off now will lose her complete house to care/nursing fees and it will take only about 2 yrs before this happens. She's moved from a carehome that was costing us around £2,000 per month and this was probably better accommodation than now!! The new care/nursing home is so very basic, it has no pictures on the wall, her drawers are broken. The bed is basic and she sits in a chair in a room that desperately needs decorating and she's looked after by staff who most of them are probably paid minimum wage, probably apart from the one Nurse who gives her the one tablet per day!! All for £5,000 per month!!! I can't believe it. We are seriously considering our options! Should we take her out of the care home and get private nursing for her in our home?? Please does anyone have a similar situation. We are going to speak with the council tomorrow first of all.