Sorry for the late post on this thread, but I haven't been on for ages. I find when I go up to take Mum to hospital appointments which is roughly twice a month, she has Macular Degeneration and needs eye injections twice a month. I have to stay for a week each time because she needs aftercare, she has to have eye drops 4 times a day for 3 days, so I travel up by train from Exeter to Liverpool, take her to hospital appointment the next day, look after her by doing her drops. Do any washing I can find, order her shopping online, encourage her to shower ( unsuccessfully), manage her carers etc etc etc.
I'm frazzled by the time I am due to come home. What I want to say to the friends and neighbours who stay away " to give you time with your mum" is " For goodness sake come over!!" I need some conversation, I need something to relieve the repetitious "conversation", I need some back and forth conversation instead of me trying desperately to instigate new topics that won't send her spinning off into old, repetitious stories that I've heard a zillion times during the week!