Yesterday was the straw that finally broke my camels back. And now I feel as if I have started a war in my husband's family.
Yesterday, My husband has been booked off work for stress and depression for a month. It's a long story with basically us caring for his Mum with little or no support from his sister. In fact they met 3 weeks ago.where my husband asked for help. Begged. As it is affecting us so badly.
After he came out the Dr and told me the prognosis. I lost it. And I sent a rather strong email to his sister basically reading her the riot act because she is refusing to help us with emergency respite we both desperately need at the moment.
The email has caused mayhem. And I feel even more guilty that I have caused my husband additional stress and my actions are going to have massive complications down the line.
To start with, I need to arrange some sort of emergency respite care. Who should I call? Can we just go straight to our local care home to get a place or do I contact social services? Not even sure how this works.
Also....I don't regret anything I said in my mail because it was exactly how I felt about the entire situation. We have not had very much support doing this. However, I think I have now probably caused a major rift between my husband and his sister.
I just can't do this anymore. I can't watch my husband fall apart. I just could not keep it in any longer. I just want out of this mess!
I am seriously at the end of my rope.
Yesterday, My husband has been booked off work for stress and depression for a month. It's a long story with basically us caring for his Mum with little or no support from his sister. In fact they met 3 weeks ago.where my husband asked for help. Begged. As it is affecting us so badly.
After he came out the Dr and told me the prognosis. I lost it. And I sent a rather strong email to his sister basically reading her the riot act because she is refusing to help us with emergency respite we both desperately need at the moment.
The email has caused mayhem. And I feel even more guilty that I have caused my husband additional stress and my actions are going to have massive complications down the line.
To start with, I need to arrange some sort of emergency respite care. Who should I call? Can we just go straight to our local care home to get a place or do I contact social services? Not even sure how this works.
Also....I don't regret anything I said in my mail because it was exactly how I felt about the entire situation. We have not had very much support doing this. However, I think I have now probably caused a major rift between my husband and his sister.
I just can't do this anymore. I can't watch my husband fall apart. I just could not keep it in any longer. I just want out of this mess!
I am seriously at the end of my rope.