Hi Only1
So so sorry you are here. As Amythyst has said there are so many wise, compassionate people here who genuinely want to help and support you. I've learnt so much and realised it's ok to be sad or cross about the situation we find ourselves in.
I've also learnt staying up late really doesn't help.
I have immersed myself into anything that is available so I can learn, make Mums and my life easier. The mental health community nurse has introduced the society support worker, admiral nurse, a carer charity who helps with admin for any benefits etc, sorted introduction to day centre, the list goes on, if it doesn't come to you make the first move ask and you can receive. I've found with others helping it gives you time to come to terms with the situation, I'm heartbroken nevertheless we move forward
The website give so much info equally can make life easier.
I'm blessed (well sometimes )I have my Dad too, I tell him he's more of a problem 80 acting 21!
I describe the situation as the road our life was traveling on has closed and we have taken another with many bumps and potholes,we can look out for them / avoid them by using the resources around us. We don't know what speed the car is going to go and when it will change gear or speed, however where we can we'll pick up some wonderful passengers who care and drop of those that don't want to ride with us.
You are welcome to our car anytime, we may invest in a coach
Take care, have a good day, we're going shopping, wish us luck Mum asked Dad to come he'll be bored in 10 minutes. We'll aim to have a laugh and lunch out to make it a pleasant afternoon for Mum. They celebrated 55 years marriage yesterday, we're out again tomorrow for lunch with a wonderful friend of mine, fingers crossed for decent weather, meant to be a hot air ballon event.
Thinking of all today. X