Hi
I am really struggling At the mo, mum is in a nursing home. The chc panel decided I couldn't get help although the mdt said she was eligible the head nurse even said we should appeal. 6 months later we have not even had a local panel review and although I have a solictor dealing with this for me it's still stressful. To make it worse mums savings have now been exhausted and her bungalow is just not selling. I have managed to set up A loan on this though.
Every time I see my mum she seems to have gone downhill she is tiny. She has no short term memory, can't write or read, can't walk can't swallow can't hold a conversation , is incontentient. She seems to screw up tissues and stick them In her ears or nose while we are there.
As her only child I have to make every decision and she wasn't even a great mum. I just want this to end. I cannot see any positives right now
I am really struggling At the mo, mum is in a nursing home. The chc panel decided I couldn't get help although the mdt said she was eligible the head nurse even said we should appeal. 6 months later we have not even had a local panel review and although I have a solictor dealing with this for me it's still stressful. To make it worse mums savings have now been exhausted and her bungalow is just not selling. I have managed to set up A loan on this though.
Every time I see my mum she seems to have gone downhill she is tiny. She has no short term memory, can't write or read, can't walk can't swallow can't hold a conversation , is incontentient. She seems to screw up tissues and stick them In her ears or nose while we are there.
As her only child I have to make every decision and she wasn't even a great mum. I just want this to end. I cannot see any positives right now