My father is 86 and has spent the last 6 months in a MH assessment unit, in the last 11 weeks he has had 6 hospital admissions for infections, including pneumonia, he has not been able to recover and continues to deteriorate.
He has withdrawn gradually from food and fluids, he has no mobility and confined to bed, taking a few sips with a thickening powder, he speach has disappeared and he has delirium, often reaches out and is heartbreaking to watch. my father is under 8 stone in weight and I have been advised my father is at the final stages of his life,there is no quality to this existence but his journey has been so rapid. the consultant has advised me that he will pass away within 6 months, but I feel inwardly I now only have a short window with him but I am struggling to determine what is keeping him going, he obviously has resilience, he is terribly frail and devastating to watch him deteriorate this way, I wonder if anyone else has experienced the same
He has withdrawn gradually from food and fluids, he has no mobility and confined to bed, taking a few sips with a thickening powder, he speach has disappeared and he has delirium, often reaches out and is heartbreaking to watch. my father is under 8 stone in weight and I have been advised my father is at the final stages of his life,there is no quality to this existence but his journey has been so rapid. the consultant has advised me that he will pass away within 6 months, but I feel inwardly I now only have a short window with him but I am struggling to determine what is keeping him going, he obviously has resilience, he is terribly frail and devastating to watch him deteriorate this way, I wonder if anyone else has experienced the same