Mum is 76 and had been told approx a year ago she had dementia, I asked for a follow up appointment early this year and the outcome was she has been given a proper diagnosis of Vascular Dementia. I was told basically to get her affairs in order, sort out the power of attorney and keep her healthy the discharged her, fine I can do that...or so I thought. She will not talk about anything to do with her care plan etc. She knows whats happening she has watched programs but still doesnt talk about it. She had a fall last week and a couple of little trips over the weekend and she just brushes it off by saying its her shoes or something similar she is in denial.
Two weeks ago I left Mum with her partner who is Diabetic type2 and he had notice his memory was getting worse. While he was getting his feet checked he mentioned about his memory, the nurse said it could be to do with his Diabetes, side affect of ECT he had in his 20's or the start of Dementia, She run the MMSE test on him which he failed miserably, tomorrow he has an appointment with the GP on the nurses advice. If he has dementia too how am I going to cope. I have no support in the area I live, my closest relative is an hour away. Feeling emotional
Two weeks ago I left Mum with her partner who is Diabetic type2 and he had notice his memory was getting worse. While he was getting his feet checked he mentioned about his memory, the nurse said it could be to do with his Diabetes, side affect of ECT he had in his 20's or the start of Dementia, She run the MMSE test on him which he failed miserably, tomorrow he has an appointment with the GP on the nurses advice. If he has dementia too how am I going to cope. I have no support in the area I live, my closest relative is an hour away. Feeling emotional