Hi
Sorry i have not posted on here for a while but would like to thank you for your replies...
Had probs with my computer.
To Cut a very long story short...
I was told last week that on top of all that uncle tom has suffered in the last few months he now has another chest infection and M.R.S.A
I feel that he has fought and fought for months now and it is not getting any better,
He has been moved to a side ward (only to add to his confusion) and is on what ,seems to me to be a rapid decline........
He totally refuses to eat ANYTHING wont even have his sweets near him... (even little bits of bread etc) and he is drinking a lot less now than he was before.
he had op.
I have sat with him and tried every trick in the book but nothing seems to work.
I was quite upset the other day when i went to visit as he didnt know me for many a while he just kept staring at me....Which i found hard to accept.
I have tried to prepare myself for this but didnt expect it to be quite so soon...
I wounder if it is the results of his op and things will get better soon when he has settled down a bit...?
He was talking to the wall and seeing faces that were not there.
He never really spoke to me much at all, he kept looking at me for ages...but there was nothing ...nothing in his eyes whatsoever...
Just Empty....... It was horrible.....Heartbreaking......
Dont know what i am supposed to do now, I only hope / wish that things will improve for him soon.
Feel completley useless.
Take care and once again thanks for being here....
Danni x
Sorry i have not posted on here for a while but would like to thank you for your replies...
Had probs with my computer.
To Cut a very long story short...
I was told last week that on top of all that uncle tom has suffered in the last few months he now has another chest infection and M.R.S.A
I feel that he has fought and fought for months now and it is not getting any better,
He has been moved to a side ward (only to add to his confusion) and is on what ,seems to me to be a rapid decline........
He totally refuses to eat ANYTHING wont even have his sweets near him... (even little bits of bread etc) and he is drinking a lot less now than he was before.
he had op.
I have sat with him and tried every trick in the book but nothing seems to work.
I was quite upset the other day when i went to visit as he didnt know me for many a while he just kept staring at me....Which i found hard to accept.
I have tried to prepare myself for this but didnt expect it to be quite so soon...
I wounder if it is the results of his op and things will get better soon when he has settled down a bit...?
He was talking to the wall and seeing faces that were not there.
He never really spoke to me much at all, he kept looking at me for ages...but there was nothing ...nothing in his eyes whatsoever...
Just Empty....... It was horrible.....Heartbreaking......
Dont know what i am supposed to do now, I only hope / wish that things will improve for him soon.
Feel completley useless.
Take care and once again thanks for being here....
Danni x