My dad now been diagnosed with severe dementia/alzheimers, and heavily depressed.
He refuses to get cleaned, and have had to be cleaned using force.
He has said that he wants to die and the doctor has put him on DNR.
He refuses to eat, but still drinks milk so he has gotten meds and nutrition powder through this. He has now not eaten in a week.
The doctor has started him on anti-depressant medications, so far they have had a small effect and gotten him out of bed a bit more. The doctor is increasing the dose and hoping to see some more improvement.
I am hoping to get some feedback from others that have been in similar situations, so I can better understand what I can expect.
If the anti-depressants are effective, could he start eating again?
If he does not start eating again, how long could he still live? He is getting nutrients trough drink, but will not be resuscitated if his heart or lungs gives up.
I do not live in the same country as my dad, so visiting him and access his state of mind is difficult, and my sister is his care-taker and get all the information from the doctor and relays that information to us. I am so out-of touch with his day to day, and I feel like such a terrible daughter who's unable to visit and give him any comfort at this time. I am also pregnant, so travelling is a bit complicated at the moment.
In so many ways I have already lost my dad, little by little ever since he started slipping. I am still terrified of losing what I have left.
He refuses to get cleaned, and have had to be cleaned using force.
He has said that he wants to die and the doctor has put him on DNR.
He refuses to eat, but still drinks milk so he has gotten meds and nutrition powder through this. He has now not eaten in a week.
The doctor has started him on anti-depressant medications, so far they have had a small effect and gotten him out of bed a bit more. The doctor is increasing the dose and hoping to see some more improvement.
I am hoping to get some feedback from others that have been in similar situations, so I can better understand what I can expect.
If the anti-depressants are effective, could he start eating again?
If he does not start eating again, how long could he still live? He is getting nutrients trough drink, but will not be resuscitated if his heart or lungs gives up.
I do not live in the same country as my dad, so visiting him and access his state of mind is difficult, and my sister is his care-taker and get all the information from the doctor and relays that information to us. I am so out-of touch with his day to day, and I feel like such a terrible daughter who's unable to visit and give him any comfort at this time. I am also pregnant, so travelling is a bit complicated at the moment.
In so many ways I have already lost my dad, little by little ever since he started slipping. I am still terrified of losing what I have left.