hi all
mums been in the home a week now and after the weekend visits, when she seemed settled & loved it -we thought 'brill, we have nailed this'
alas - last visit mon eve, she hates it, doesn't get fed - even though I arrived & one of the carers told me she had polioshed off a huge piece of lasagne....
& ive called them today -she didn't go to bed at all last night as was up 'cleaning' the lounge & dining areas & couldn't settle.
but, I'm just not as stressed as I thought I would be?
I know its going to take weeks for her to settle, some visits will be awful, some won't.
the fact that the home is lovely, the staff (so far) seem great and I wish I could have her food choices .!
She is taking her meds, she is being fed & I know being looked after -today she is seeing a Chirpodist & Friday -hair cut!
So I will visit tonight have to check her room out as it amazes me the things that have turned up in mums room not belonging to mum! - not sure if she is collecting things or if the staff put them in any old room .
As a family, we have done the right thing - i think ......time will tell.
sas
x
mums been in the home a week now and after the weekend visits, when she seemed settled & loved it -we thought 'brill, we have nailed this'
alas - last visit mon eve, she hates it, doesn't get fed - even though I arrived & one of the carers told me she had polioshed off a huge piece of lasagne....
& ive called them today -she didn't go to bed at all last night as was up 'cleaning' the lounge & dining areas & couldn't settle.
but, I'm just not as stressed as I thought I would be?
I know its going to take weeks for her to settle, some visits will be awful, some won't.
the fact that the home is lovely, the staff (so far) seem great and I wish I could have her food choices .!
She is taking her meds, she is being fed & I know being looked after -today she is seeing a Chirpodist & Friday -hair cut!
So I will visit tonight have to check her room out as it amazes me the things that have turned up in mums room not belonging to mum! - not sure if she is collecting things or if the staff put them in any old room .
As a family, we have done the right thing - i think ......time will tell.
sas
x