Hello everyone, I hope this is the right place to post.
My mum who has dementia recently went to visit her sister, my Aunty liana (who has just lost her husband) and when she came back she said that she didn't know who the woman in aunty Liana's house was and was very distressed by not knowing where Liana was. DAd and I calmed her down eventually, and I hoped she might forget about it, but she keeps mentioning it and I just don't know what to do, she's never not recognised someone so close to her. I've tried distracting her whenever it comes up but she's somewhat obsessed by where liana is. I don't really want to get my aunt involved as she is still very fragile having just lost her husband. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do? I've found the whole thing very upsetting as her decline seems to be accelerating and I just want to protect her from harm or hurt. Sorry if this seems trivial but as I say it really upset me.
My mum who has dementia recently went to visit her sister, my Aunty liana (who has just lost her husband) and when she came back she said that she didn't know who the woman in aunty Liana's house was and was very distressed by not knowing where Liana was. DAd and I calmed her down eventually, and I hoped she might forget about it, but she keeps mentioning it and I just don't know what to do, she's never not recognised someone so close to her. I've tried distracting her whenever it comes up but she's somewhat obsessed by where liana is. I don't really want to get my aunt involved as she is still very fragile having just lost her husband. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do? I've found the whole thing very upsetting as her decline seems to be accelerating and I just want to protect her from harm or hurt. Sorry if this seems trivial but as I say it really upset me.