Hi everyone,
Wow, it's been four years since I last posted on here.
My mum is still going, I don't know whether she is in the late stage dementia or end of life, the doctor called a couple of weeks ago to state that her condition had detoriated quite badly since January. She is now bed bound, no longer walks or talks or recognises me and I didn't realise til recently on little bits of pureed food as she can no longer chew. Just lies there not moving. I took my baby daughter to see her and she barely opened her eyes. Shes' 85, it's been 5 long long years, I can't stand it like this. Is it end of life??? CH said that they had another lady like that for 18 months, I don't think I can bear it. I feel guilty but I wish she would pass, what kind of life does she have, if that's what you can call it????
My dad unfortunately had a stroke which has left him disabled and with limited speech in August 2015. He is also stuck in a care home although we want him home but no care home covers our village.
I also wanted to mention that I am writing up mums memoirs/book about WW2 in Sussex and trying to get it published. It's been so so hard as it was scattered all over the house and I have been trying to put it together in some kind of order.I can't post the link yet as it won't let me but I will try a separate post about it later, it's called And A Nightingale Sang
Love to you all, I hate this disease
Wow, it's been four years since I last posted on here.
My mum is still going, I don't know whether she is in the late stage dementia or end of life, the doctor called a couple of weeks ago to state that her condition had detoriated quite badly since January. She is now bed bound, no longer walks or talks or recognises me and I didn't realise til recently on little bits of pureed food as she can no longer chew. Just lies there not moving. I took my baby daughter to see her and she barely opened her eyes. Shes' 85, it's been 5 long long years, I can't stand it like this. Is it end of life??? CH said that they had another lady like that for 18 months, I don't think I can bear it. I feel guilty but I wish she would pass, what kind of life does she have, if that's what you can call it????
My dad unfortunately had a stroke which has left him disabled and with limited speech in August 2015. He is also stuck in a care home although we want him home but no care home covers our village.
I also wanted to mention that I am writing up mums memoirs/book about WW2 in Sussex and trying to get it published. It's been so so hard as it was scattered all over the house and I have been trying to put it together in some kind of order.I can't post the link yet as it won't let me but I will try a separate post about it later, it's called And A Nightingale Sang
Love to you all, I hate this disease