Hi,
My Mum lives alone, and my sister lives locally so took on responsibility for my Mum.
Mum has carers come in twice a day also.
My brother and I had trusted that our sister was doing the right thing for Mum, she had Mum's bank cards and PIN so she could do the shopping and buy meals etc..
We recently found some bank statements and were shocked to find that my sister has raided Mum's account, to the tune of £13,000 per year, for the last 3 years. There is absolutely no way that she is spending £1100 per month looking after Mum. We have approached her and she says its for all the little extras, such as bed pads. We find this very hard to belief.
Is what she is doing illegal ?
What should we do ?
My Mum lives alone, and my sister lives locally so took on responsibility for my Mum.
Mum has carers come in twice a day also.
My brother and I had trusted that our sister was doing the right thing for Mum, she had Mum's bank cards and PIN so she could do the shopping and buy meals etc..
We recently found some bank statements and were shocked to find that my sister has raided Mum's account, to the tune of £13,000 per year, for the last 3 years. There is absolutely no way that she is spending £1100 per month looking after Mum. We have approached her and she says its for all the little extras, such as bed pads. We find this very hard to belief.
Is what she is doing illegal ?
What should we do ?