I have recently placed my mother in a lovely care home, but have realized that it is absolutely wrong for her. My mother's dementia is not severe, by any means, and she is able to communicate well. She largely needs elderly care assistance, and some nursing. She is confused, and forgetful but her ability to communicate is quite good, with the tight people. She has done extremely well in respite and continuing care, gained confidence, made friends, and was looking forward to settling in a permanent place. No problems there.
The problem is that the care home we have placed her in, has many residents who are severely affected by dementia, and my mother thinks she is in a mental institution. She is becoming depressed and withdrawn very quickly, is not eating, and is frightened by some of the extremes she is seeing. She is not being difficult, and we are very afraid her health is going to suffer badly if we don't find another care home for her. This isn't just about settling in to a new place.
She is fully funded by Adult Services, and we were so pleased to find her a room in a lovely, private care home. We discussed her cognitive abilities, and were assured she would be able to talk to one or two residents which, in itself, was fine. The reality is rather different.
Has anybody else experienced a problem of this nature? If so, I would appreciate any advise. Thank you.
Regards, Caroline
The problem is that the care home we have placed her in, has many residents who are severely affected by dementia, and my mother thinks she is in a mental institution. She is becoming depressed and withdrawn very quickly, is not eating, and is frightened by some of the extremes she is seeing. She is not being difficult, and we are very afraid her health is going to suffer badly if we don't find another care home for her. This isn't just about settling in to a new place.
She is fully funded by Adult Services, and we were so pleased to find her a room in a lovely, private care home. We discussed her cognitive abilities, and were assured she would be able to talk to one or two residents which, in itself, was fine. The reality is rather different.
Has anybody else experienced a problem of this nature? If so, I would appreciate any advise. Thank you.
Regards, Caroline