Finally the time is approaching for my husband to see an elderly person's psychiatrist and hopefully get a diagnosis. However I am dreading next weeks appointment. He is complete denial and I know he will not tell them the truth. I have known he has had problems for more than eight years but is getting progressively worse.
According to him there is nothing wrong. It is my fault, as I do tell him things, can't explain things properly, etc. I know if I attempt to tell them the real extent of his problems he will get very angry with me and despite the fact he forgets most things he will not forget that. We have just got back from another hospital appointment which was his 6 month check following throat cancer and radiotherapy 4 years ago. His consultant asked if he had had any problems with his teeth and because I told him about an abscess and tooth extraction which led to sepsis late last year my husband went mad at me.
I almost feel I want to cancel next weeks appointment because I feel it will achieve very little. My children feel we must go because of the stress and strain of my dealing with my husband.
Any advice would be appreciated
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According to him there is nothing wrong. It is my fault, as I do tell him things, can't explain things properly, etc. I know if I attempt to tell them the real extent of his problems he will get very angry with me and despite the fact he forgets most things he will not forget that. We have just got back from another hospital appointment which was his 6 month check following throat cancer and radiotherapy 4 years ago. His consultant asked if he had had any problems with his teeth and because I told him about an abscess and tooth extraction which led to sepsis late last year my husband went mad at me.
I almost feel I want to cancel next weeks appointment because I feel it will achieve very little. My children feel we must go because of the stress and strain of my dealing with my husband.
Any advice would be appreciated
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