Dad has Vascular Dementia and seems to be at the stage of calling me in the night.
Last night for example, I had been at work and was still lieing awake at about 2.00 in the morning just about to drift off to sleep before getting up again at 5.30 for work. Dad picks his moments and called me at 2.00AM. I came down to see he wanted and was told he had just woken up, was it breakfast time, when was the carer here and why was she so late, was I going to work. _ I explained No Dad it is the middle of the night, go back to sleep. No he couldn't he had just woken up and got up so what could he do? We went round on that loop for about 20 minutes.
Tried to have some rest myself this morning after work and was just drifting off again when he calls me ( already told him I hadn't slept and needed to lie down. This time he kept talking to himself downstairs so I gave up and went to see what the problem was and this time his underpants were strangling him in his own words so I had to change his pants.
Any tips of surviving this stage of dementia as a carer?
Dr won't give him sleeping tablets because of other health issues. I've already changed my working hours but working early shift and late shift at weekends.
Last night for example, I had been at work and was still lieing awake at about 2.00 in the morning just about to drift off to sleep before getting up again at 5.30 for work. Dad picks his moments and called me at 2.00AM. I came down to see he wanted and was told he had just woken up, was it breakfast time, when was the carer here and why was she so late, was I going to work. _ I explained No Dad it is the middle of the night, go back to sleep. No he couldn't he had just woken up and got up so what could he do? We went round on that loop for about 20 minutes.
Tried to have some rest myself this morning after work and was just drifting off again when he calls me ( already told him I hadn't slept and needed to lie down. This time he kept talking to himself downstairs so I gave up and went to see what the problem was and this time his underpants were strangling him in his own words so I had to change his pants.
Any tips of surviving this stage of dementia as a carer?
Dr won't give him sleeping tablets because of other health issues. I've already changed my working hours but working early shift and late shift at weekends.