I'm a new member care for my mum who has VD I finding my way through the social care but my main problem is with my sister. We are just on opposite sides of the page. I cant see any way through it with her.
She was to check on mum while i had a short break this Friday to Sunday in Blackpool! 2days, first time in over a year I've had a day off. on Saturday she started ringing and texting me as mum not answering her phone. I replied saying she has probs unplugged the phone as she is doing it to everything. Got responses 'I'm unhelpful ' and difficult to deal with. This is after i said she should of dealt with the situation and not contact me. Wkend ruined came home last night stressed and my sister feeling sorry for herself. Got txt saying 'im doing my best ' I'm at the point of cutting my ties with her. This was the first away time for me in over a year. BTW sis goes away 4xs a year abroad and has no contact with mum apart from the odd visit each month. I'm looking for peace of mind. She doesnt seem to grasp how mum is now, I'm sad in away that we are drifting apart. We have never been close but things had improved until this year when I've been left to do everything thing for mum even moving here to a ground floor flat on my own. I live on my own have no support so this is a good place for me to unload. [emoji68]*[emoji335]
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She was to check on mum while i had a short break this Friday to Sunday in Blackpool! 2days, first time in over a year I've had a day off. on Saturday she started ringing and texting me as mum not answering her phone. I replied saying she has probs unplugged the phone as she is doing it to everything. Got responses 'I'm unhelpful ' and difficult to deal with. This is after i said she should of dealt with the situation and not contact me. Wkend ruined came home last night stressed and my sister feeling sorry for herself. Got txt saying 'im doing my best ' I'm at the point of cutting my ties with her. This was the first away time for me in over a year. BTW sis goes away 4xs a year abroad and has no contact with mum apart from the odd visit each month. I'm looking for peace of mind. She doesnt seem to grasp how mum is now, I'm sad in away that we are drifting apart. We have never been close but things had improved until this year when I've been left to do everything thing for mum even moving here to a ground floor flat on my own. I live on my own have no support so this is a good place for me to unload. [emoji68]*[emoji335]
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