hubby is in the last stages of dementia.he still knows who I am, but its so hard to see him just sitting there ,no movement ,some times he talks .like on Saturday all he kept saying was he couldnt stand up any more and he loved me and was going to die,I kept the tears away till I got home.I did have family with me,but all I could think of after I got home was ,is he giving up. Its so hard these visits ,but I will keep going and never let him know how upset I get,and yes I do wish he would just go to sleep and not wake up,as this isnt my hubby and im sure there are many of you in this same place ,but it still hurts.