My OH went missing yet again last Monday evening. I couldn't find him so had to call police. This has happened numerous times before and this time was the'straw that broke the camels back' I contacted our social worker and she made arrangements for OH to go iinto respite care on Wednesday, his first time. I was told not to visit for the first few days to let them get him settled, but I could ring up to see how he is getting on.
It seems he isn't settling at all and keeps walking round and round and in and out of bedrooms. He does not like being shut in. At home we spend most of the day going out somewhere as he doesn't like being in the house as it's not home any more.
I thought I would benefit from the rest but I'm not sleeping and keep having crying fits as I'm not sure that I have done the right thing although I knew I needed a rest. I'm also dreading him coming home as I know things will be very unsettled once again with him being more frightened and anxious than he was before going into RC.
Alzheimers is hell for all concerned.
It seems he isn't settling at all and keeps walking round and round and in and out of bedrooms. He does not like being shut in. At home we spend most of the day going out somewhere as he doesn't like being in the house as it's not home any more.
I thought I would benefit from the rest but I'm not sleeping and keep having crying fits as I'm not sure that I have done the right thing although I knew I needed a rest. I'm also dreading him coming home as I know things will be very unsettled once again with him being more frightened and anxious than he was before going into RC.
Alzheimers is hell for all concerned.