I need some advice.
I know on the compassionate sheet it says don't force someone with dementia to do something, but mum is getting more aggressive and agitated and it is getting harder to shower or even hand wash her. Yesterday she hit me when I tried to give her a wash.
What should I do? Should I leave her to smell or force her to have a wash? Dad is refusing to get people in to help with this.
I know on the compassionate sheet it says don't force someone with dementia to do something, but mum is getting more aggressive and agitated and it is getting harder to shower or even hand wash her. Yesterday she hit me when I tried to give her a wash.
What should I do? Should I leave her to smell or force her to have a wash? Dad is refusing to get people in to help with this.